Making Big Decisions By the Book

As we think of making big decisions "by the book" - keep in mind two types of big decisions:

1 - Moral - where there is a direct application of God's Word. Do I rob a bank? Do I commit adultery?

2 - Strategic - these are the much harder "big decisions," where we may be forced to choose between two seemingly good options - neither of which is a contradiction of godly values - such as - "Do I take that new job that pays better but means that we have to move?"

This message focuses on this second type - the strategic big decision. Biblical passages and principles to keep in mind:


PROVERBS 14:15-16. Only simpletons believe everything they're told! The prudent carefully consider their steps. The wise are cautious and avoid danger; fools plunge ahead with reckless confidence.

This passage is an example of what we might call the "YELLOW LIGHT PRINCIPLE." Hasty decisions are often unwise ones. Take appropriate time to consider the wise choice and wait on God's guidance.


PROVERBS 15:22. Without counsel, plans go wrong, but with many advisers they succeed.

This passage is an example of the "GOOD ADVICE PRINCIPLE." When facing a big decision, use the advice of godly friends, family and colleagues. Make sure the advice is wise and sound - the world is also full of bad advice - people who will lead you down a dangerous path.


PROVERBS 16:3. Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.

PROVERBS 16:9. The human mind plans the way, but the Lord directs the steps.

These verses show us the powerful "PLANNING + PRAYER PRINCIPLE." We cannot just check out, and fail to use the minds God gave us. But neither can we assume entire control - using human methods of analysis and planning - and end up leaving God out of the picture.

A passage from James 4 reminds us that it is arrogant to announce our intentions and plans as if we are in control. We should always temper our planning with the acknowledgement that God is truly in control.


Garry Friesen writes an interesting article - "God's Will: Is There One Correct Choice."


We frequently think of seeking God's help through prayer as we face big decisions. We are not so apt to think of fasting. Read this article on prayer and fasting.